Have you been exhausted by the Covid chapter of “Dating Hell”? Are you ready for a fresh approach that guarantees an awesome next First Date?


Your mission, should you choose to accept it:
Learn the Authentimacy method to reset your experience — describing yourself and your desired relationship in your overhauled dating profile. With this new approach and mindset, you’ll feel calm having practiced vetting people per your standards, ensuring alignment of interests & intentions, and confidently choosing to meet your next First Date with anticipation, as though Covid is no longer a dread!



What You Will Learn
  • The latest survey data on midlife dating – it can help to know you’re not the only one!
  • How to overhaul your dating profile prose + photos for better reception — with instructor and student feedback
  • How to leverage your time on dating sites and increase your energy ROI (we like to say, “Relationships Outta Intention”)
  • Practicing with a template to evaluate prospective matches so you ask the right questions (for you) and have the least ghosting
  • Prompts to assess potential Authentimacy with this prospective date
  • How to smoothly have thanks-but-no-thanks conversations instead of ghosting and banking bad karma
  • The benefits from the new trend of “hardball dating” without it backfiring and losing potential matches 
  • How to stop obsessing about “LTR” (long term relationship) and instead focus on “HQR” (high quality relationship) — the kind you probably want to continue!
What’s Included?
  • Live weekly training calls, recorded in case of conflicting schedules.
  • Including group coaching sessions for shared processing and learning from others
  • Six weeks’ support for your Dating Reset.
  • For busy professionals, we also offer a White-Glove, “Done for You” service managing up to 3 dating accounts over the engagement period.

Thursday evenings 5:29pm PST (8:29pm EST)
Feb 17 – Mar 24, 2022
Note: you can still sign up, get the recordings, and catch up with the class!

What is the Investment?
  • Regular Price: $697  Exclusive price for the first 10 participants in the beta course: $297 (57% off). Payment plan available through PayPal Later. This training will not be offered at this price again.
  • Whether you value your time or your well-being or your sanity, this course will pay for itself instead of having lousy dates that make you question a “Bad Picker” or even give up on relationships.
  • For the White-Glove, “Done for You” service, please apply here.
I’m Ready for a Dating Reset!
Course Guarantee
  • Though nobody can ensure you’ll find love or dates if you don’t follow through, our Authintimacy method is guaranteed to improve your confidence and experience (which directly correlates with improved results).
  • If you watch all the weekly training modules, make respective changes in your approach/communication/profiles, complete all the weekly homework in your workbook, and record your dating conversations in the Dating Log, you will feel the improvement in your dating success over the next year. If you do not, contact us for a refund.
Who is this NOT for?


Persons of any gender/orientation who 

  • prefer misrepresenting their true intentions, manipulating others, etc. (this is not a pickup course)
  • are unwilling to look inside their heart to figure out what lights them up and their past relationships to grow beyond (foundational to this program)
  • have deep trauma where dating is not yet appropriate (therapy is a better direction)
Your Guide, Paul Aaron Travis – along with Rotating Guest Hosts of Different Persuasions
  • Paul’s commitment to making dating joyful, respectful, expansive and consensual comes from extensive training in interpersonal relations — from Nonviolent Communication to the Wheel of Consent, from Landmark Education to Human Awareness International, from Body Electric to ISTA/Tantra.
  • For years, Paul cofacilitated the Seattle Men’s Wisdom Council, working with hundreds of men every month. In the years since his divorce, he has dated 100 women – mostly first dates which didn’t yield sufficient chemistry to continue, as well as creating 3 multi-year relationships.
  • Paul initially studied computer science and was a Type A personality.  Over the years, however, he learned and applied emotional intelligence to his personal relationships which changed how he connected for the better, notably in dating! 
  • After a business career incl. roles as Marketing VP for a publicly traded software co. and President of the Institute of Management Consultants [Seattle Chapter] Paul chose to refocus his energies on training in the love and relationships area.
I’m Ready for a Dating Reset!
What People Are Saying
  • “I joined a Pandemic.Love event about ‘dating hesitancy’. I love the innovative thinking that brought that about. The Covid-19 pandemic has changed so many relationships for me, and dating is no exception. I could see from the depth and honesty of our conversation, that the folks in that event are interested in personal and inner work… how refreshing! I appreciated the no-pressure atmosphere that the facilitator established as a baseline. I’m looking forward to the next course or event, and getting to know others at a speed and intensity that makes sense for me.” — Teresa, Bellingham WA
  • “Hey Paul! Just wanted to follow up on the Pandemic.Love program I took part in recently. It felt so good to hear your perspectives on dating hesitancy and then hear from others who have their own doubts around midlife dating. I often feel alone in situations like this, yet in the end there are so many of us experiencing the same feelings. In fact I heard a woman express some of my own thoughts about dating with kids at home! Others surely will benefit from these structured conversations you’re facilitating, thanks so much.” — Sean, rural Vermont
  • “As a 43-year-old woman who’s been single for a decade, the Covid chapter of dating has hit me harder than ever so Paul’s teachings have been helpful.  Especially lately, when my self care and self worth hold such a high regard. Now of course, the medical conversation/crisis this world is involved with is a major factor. A person who can cherish me as much as I cherish them would be ideal in my world. So here we are… navigating this new dating realm in complete knowing of self-worth and self-care. Pandemic.Love offers a great learning experience. I’ve learned to remind myself to NOT be too hard on myself in this process, that I will attract the right person for me at the right divine timing – thank you!” — Heather, Dallas TX
Questions?
  • Call Paul at 206-910-2222.  No question too small, or too big!
  • If you’ve read this pre-launch invitation to the end and decided the program is not right for you, you’ll want to get on our mailing list for future events!