Spiritual Singles Over 40: Has Your Busyness, Introversion, or Shyness Hijacked Your Dating — Leaving You Pondering Being Alone Forever?
Your mission, should you choose to accept it:
Stop doing what you’ve been doing – it’s not getting you what you want, and doing more is only getting more exhausting. You didn’t just get behind the steering wheel at age 16 — you took driver education class! Nobody tells us that dating without discipline can be maddening. Listen, it’s not your fault…
Instead of wasting your energy on people who aren’t on your level, learn the Authintimacy method to weed through prospective partners and focus where there’s true potential for what you most desire – the kind of connection, love, laughter, companionship, passion and depthyou’ve always wanted. Both groundedness and expansiveness.
Dating Sherpa — Private Coaching
What You Will Learn as We Work Together
How to manage/leverage your time on dating sites and increase your energy ROI (we say: “Relationships Outta Intention”)
How to create Zoom dates that rock — ensuring their pictures are current and setting parameters for transparency and consent to build trust
How to smoothly have thanks-but-no-thanks conversations instead of ghosting and banking bad karma
The latest survey data on midlife dating — it can help to know you’re not the only one regardless of any orientation/preference you may have
Language to use in overhauling your dating profile + choosing photos for better reception/alignment (feedback from instructor and others)
Practicing with a template to evaluate prospective matches so you ask the right questions (for you) and minimize ghosting
Messaging prompts to assess Authintimacy potential with prospective dates
The benefits from the new trend of “hardball dating” without it backfiring and losing potential matches
How to stop obsessing about “LTR” (long term relationship) and instead focus on “HQR” (high quality relationship) — why continue any other type of connection?
The value of a community of other Singles Over 40 using the Authintimacy method to create HQR, rather than your friends who are already married or those who’ve broken up and are cynical about love.
What’s Included?
6-hour recorded Masterclass training to dig right in !
Live Authintimacy workbook/playbook for personalized support
Private weekly coaching session for 12 weeks after the Masterclass to forever change the way you experience dating.
Is It Right for You? Let’s Discuss!
Whether you value your time or your well-being or your sanity (perhaps all of the above) this program will pay for itself instead of having lousy dates that make you question a “Bad Picker” or even give up on relationships.
“I joined a Pandemic.Love event about dating hesitancy. I love the innovative thinking that brought that about. The Covid-19 pandemic has changed so many relationships for me, and dating is no exception. I could see from the depth and honesty of our conversation, that the folks in that event are interested in personal and inner work… how refreshing! I appreciated the no-pressure atmosphere that the facilitator established as a baseline. I’m looking forward to the next course or event, and getting to know others at a speed and intensity that makes sense for me.”— Teresa, Bellingham WA
“Hey Paul! Just wanted to follow up on the Pandemic.Love program I took part in recently. It felt so good to hear your perspectives on dating hesitancy and then hear from others who have their own doubts around midlife dating. I often feel alone in situations like this, yet in the end there are so many of us experiencing the same feelings. In fact I heard a woman express some of my own thoughts about dating with kids at home! Others surely will benefit from these structured conversations you’re facilitating, thanks so much.”— Sean, rural Vermont
“As a 43-year-old woman who’s been single for a decade, the Covid chapter of dating has hit me harder than ever so Paul’s teachings have been helpful. Especially lately, when my self care and self worth hold such a high regard. Now of course, the medical conversation/crisis this world is involved with is a major factor. A person who can cherish me as much as I cherish them would be ideal in my world. So here we are… navigating this new dating realm in complete knowing of self-worth and self-care. Pandemic.Love offers a great learning experience. I’ve learned to remind myself to NOT be too hard on myself in this process, that I will attract the right person for me at the right divine timing – thank you!” — Heather, Austin TX
Your Guide, Paul Aaron Travis – along with Rotating Guest Hosts of Different Persuasions
Paul’s commitment to making dating joyful, respectful, expansive and consensual comes from extensive training in interpersonal relations — from Nonviolent Communication to the Wheel of Consent, from Landmark Education to Human Awareness International, from Body Electric to ISTA/Tantra.
For years, Paul co-facilitated the Seattle Men’s Wisdom Council, working with hundreds of men every month. In the years since his divorce, he has dated dozens of women – mostly first dates which didn’t yield sufficient chemistry to continue, as well as creating 3 multi-year relationships.
Paul initially studied computer science and was a Type A personality. Over the years, however, he learned and applied emotional intelligence to his personal relationships which changed how he connected for the better, notably in dating!
After a business career incl. roles as Marketing VP for a publicly traded software co. and President of the Institute of Management Consultants [Seattle Chapter] Paul chose to refocus his energies on training in the love and relationships area.
Email Paul (Paul [at] VivifyLLC.com) with your phone number. No question too small, or too big!
If you have read this invitation to the end and decided the program is not right for you, you’ll definitely want to get on our mailing list for future events.
